I’ve been doing a lot of traffic engineering studies now that I have my own ASN; apparently traffic engineering is a massive field with many interesting problems you never get to experience unless you’re doing network operations.
I have several upstreams and IXPs terminated on my router. What are they? Upstreams are providers that offer me transit, aka the broad “access to the rest of the internet.” They basically agree to transit packets from my network to networks they can reach (and they always can reach more) for free, or for a small fee (or for a very large fee if you have lots of traffic).